Body Image, Hot vs Beautiful

First, about Hot vs Beautiful:

Guys are not as adept at verbal things. Even more people, across genders, do not bother nor care to analyze social phenomenon. For me, some of these words have subtle differences in meanings.

Hot - You're physically attractive. The opposite gender would have sex with you and probably hit on you. For some more jerk-ish guys, you're a  good target for a one-night stand. Not to say that the world "hot" means that you're easy and slutty. But when it comes from one of those types of guys, it's what they are thinking about. Hot is physical.

Sexy - Basically hot. You could have a sexy manner though, the way you carry yourself/seduce a person.

Beautiful - This has a certain aspect of elegance attached to it. It's less 'have sex with that girl'. It could mean something deeper. But on the most shallow level, it is admiring a person. It could be purely physical, but that does not detract from the emotions felt. It can be both physical and mental, in which case it's more well-rounded.


Assume guy likes a girl.
If a guy simply calls a girl hot, there is a higher chance that he'd simply get over her in a little bit.

If a guy calls a girl beautiful, it is possible that...
The girl has captured the guy's heart and took his breath away. The guy feels the girl is the most beautiful girl in the world. (Brought to you by evolution, by the way.)

As a girl friend who she thinks is the hottest girl in the room and you may lose standing with the girl. Ask a girl who she thinks is the most beautiful, she'd pick a girl, if that girl is in the room. The girl can admire that other girl while being a straight girl.

There is can be more respect for a girl who is beautiful. A few guys actually have a hard time pleasuring them self to the image of the girl in question, because it almost 'dirties' up her image. There could be an element of innocence attached. Of elegance. Of 'inner beauty'. Valid or not, that's definitely a possibility of the implied meaning of the word when used in the correct context.

Gorgeous - You look incredible, I'm blown away. I've never seen a guy use this word on a girl the guy never calls beautiful and only calls hot. Therefore, this isn't in the same league as 'hot'.

Pretty - You look pleasant.

Cute - Pretty. Could also infer something about the girl's character, though, "Cute behavior".. Nobody says "pretty behavior".

Body Image
Being a guy, I have more guy friends than girl friends. That's just how it is. Because of this, I may know more about the guy's body image problems. But let's start with the female.

-Breast Size

We've heard of the guys drooling over some busty girl. Do guys really like big breasts? Some do, some don't, I don't. (Watch it get loose and saggy in the future!) I don't think breasts can be fully equated as the same situation as penis size. Breasts don't pleasure the guy directly. Their size has no utility in sex. Yes, the correct size may arouse the guy, but that doesn't equate to 'the bigger, the better'. So girls, quit worrying about breast size. And don't get fake boobs. The men that would take fake boobs rather than the real thing have issues.

-Not thing enough

Just saying, being unhealthy and eating nothing makes you look malnutritioned. And that puts up a red flag to guys because it is an evolutionary warning sign. There's a threshold of being too thin, as well.

-Height

Not as common. But I do notice that a majority of guys prefer shorter girls. Girls tend to be shorter. But I disagree. 5 feet 4 isn't good for me, I'd prefer somebody my height. With every trait, there is guy that hates and a guy that loves it.

Now for the guys...

-Penis Size
Anything under 3.5 inches is bad. Under 3 is really bad. The average is 5-6 inches. Many guys watch porn, see some dude with oversized penis and figures that his penis is small. Also, looking down on your dick form the perspective of your head position, your dick looks smaller than it really is. Also, dick size isn't THAT important, especially when clitoral orgasms are way more common. A good vibrator will work well, but a hand will work nicely as well. (Or a tongue. Whatever floats your boat.) AND, even with vaginal sex, it's penis circumference. that matters. I'm not claiming to be a sex expert, but this is what I've picked up upon from research.

For both genders, the clothes you wear is important. Yeah, everyone loves the idea of loving somebody for their personality, but that is a load of bullshit. We are evolutionary products. We see the secondary sexual characteristics of the opposite sex and judge subconsciously, their fertility. So, wear bad clothes. Girls or guys won't like you. Got acne? Minus points. Etc.

Hell, for the guys that idealize a girl as an innocent, sweet, beautiful girl, the reality here is they are just as horny as you are. If we are back in the stone ages, she'd basically long to get laid over and over. Every time you want to eat, drink  sleep, have sex, you are completely dominated by your primal instincts. It's evolution taking over.