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Sunday, June 17, 2012
Porn is Good
This is a response to comments HERE where the talk was about a mother searching up their teenage son's laptop and finding porn. The teen is 18.
Human beings are sexual beings. It is through evolution that we have come to desire for sex.
So you make the argument that porn is degrading to women? Why is it degrading to women that a female and a male have sex? Shouldn't it also be degrading to males? If both at 18 or over, what is the problem here? Even if it's a rape video, that's their business. (Mind I add, you yourself probably have a fetish, but due to social stigmas, you won't allow yourself to think about it.)
Addiction? When the hell was the last time you heard of a teenager addicted to porn? Now, when was the last time you heard of a teenager addicted to World of Warcraft? Then by that logic, we should ban WoW. You can get addicted to almost anything in life. This doesn't mean we should be sheltered from EVERYTHING. So you put up the argument that 'just because they're gonna watch anyways doesn't mean you shouldn't ban it'. So, if everyone is going to watch it, and it's as addictive and as horrible as you say it is (and you probably watch it anyways, you hypocrite...), why is it that I'm not seeing sex freaks at high school? That's right, you don't have an answer. Sir, do you EVEN KNOW what true addiction is? Have you been addicted, truly addicted to something? Then WHY THE FUCK are you slinging around the word 'addiction' around so carelessly? Better shut your mouth before you say something else embarrassing.
How will the teenager handle having sex for the first time if he never watched porn? Lol.
Newsflash: He's 18. He's been watching porn for 5 years or so. If you're even a half decent parent, you know that your son isn't out part-aying and having sex with random ladies. If that's the case, that means five years of this stuff and he's still fine. WHAT IS THE PROBLEM HERE?! Do you not have better things in his life to micromanage? Or do you just LOVE snooping around his laptop? I bet you read his emails too. What a violation of trust and privacy. If he's not wanking off, he's either going to explode, or have real life sex, possibly with random people. Would you prefer that? Well, I hope so, but with your level of logic, I'm starting to get scared here about your answer.
If your son/daughter is too stupid to realize that porn does not always equate to how real life sex will be like, he'll probably end up killing themselves one day, because he is THAT STUPID. And thankfully, I do not know anyone that fits into that category.
And yes, the teens will do it anyways, whether you allow it or not. Making it forbidden almost adds to the excitement. Almost all guys and girls masturbate in their teenage years, it's natural. I consider watching porn as merely an extension of their arsenal of, shall we say, pleasure. Take away the porn, and they'll find some other way or procuring porn (and they will), or they will use their imagination. And let's just say, they have vivid imaginations.
I have a friend that to this day (he is 18), does not watch porn nor know what an orgasm is. Do you want this to be your kid? He who is so sheltered, he doesn't understand basic human reproduction? Imagine if he was your kid. Very soon he will live on his own. How is he going to make rational and informed decisions about sex if he hasn't even seen it?
We live in a society that is like the Puritans when it comes to sex for teenagers. We can see a guy's leg get blown off, but if a guy sees a female body, OH MY GOD, WE MUST AVOID THAT AT ALL COST. Tell me, does that make any sense at all? And how well is this society working, by the way? We want to censor all sexual content. Tell me, how well is it working for the teenagers? Are we getting 0% sex talk and unwanted pregnancies? Quit being so stubborn and locked in the your way of thinking. Stop for a second and question what everyone seem to believe is true, ok?
Parents, stop tossing around lame-ass excuses as to why porn is bad, evil, taboo, when you yourself probably watched it as a teenager.
This ranks as one of the dumbest commonly held beliefs by parents that I know of.
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Well, I'm restricting myself from porn so I can be more focus to my study.
ReplyDeleteBut since I regard myself as an unique person, I won't be telling people to do everything I do or to have an exact mindset like me (that will be ridiculous).
But you're right. Why is everyone really scared of sexual stuff?
By the way, I've been reading your words (despite the fact that I should be doing any school task or homework so I won't spend any night without sleep this week) today and I must say I like your thoughts.
And you just involuntary gave me a smudge of idea to post something in my nearly neglected (or I should say 'in my neglected') blog. Thanks a lot for that.
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